Ok so I am curious to see what ppl think about this. I have a friend who is a single mom and she complains all the time about how hard it is to juggle work and a child. I completely understand that she does do a lot and time and money are tight and i feel for her, sincerely! However, i feel like ppl forget how hard it is to be a sahm. Does everyone think that we sit at home and eat bon bons and spend all of our dh $? First off my husband works but that means still 1 income and we struggle as well, also, any sahm who is spending enough time with their kids during the day knows how trying it can be. Idk about anyone else but i miss going to work sometimes just to have a bit of adult conversation and self worth outside the house! What i think is the hardest is co-parenting with my husband day in and day out! When it comes to such a precious topic it becomes difficult to constantly be on the same page. When i am making a routine all day and he comes home and screws it all up! lol Now i know a lot of single moms have to deal with bd for visitation and i'm sure it can be difficult. I'm not discrediting anybody here! I'm just intrigued by everyone's story. I think all moms work their a**es off for their kids and would do anything. I also think that i am very blessed to be able to stay home with my child. Just some friendly venting time!