Would you be upset if a friend claimed to be too sick to have her kids all week (pawning them off on others) but come Friday she's texting me asking to watch her kids so she can have a date night? I said no bc I have a killer migraine and quite honestly I'm sick of watching her kids. She suffers from self diagnosed fibro which I can sympathize with I've been dx with fibro and horrid migraines but unless I'm in the hospital or my husband is home I take care of my kid. She seems to be sick all week every week but its all fine fri and sat for date night and no it's not just sitting down they go dancing they play mini golf stuff like that. I'm just sad for the kids bc they worry about their mom & miss her playing with them. I love them but I can't watch them anymore if she's well enough to have date night or ladies night she's well enough to take care of her kids. Idk maybe it's bc I suffer too & there's days I want to take meds & lay in bed all day but I know my daughter needs me. When I'm flared up I wouldn't even think about date night. If its a good week we'd get out but I'm fine having a date night at home after little one goes to bed. This is just me venting my frustration by taking myself off the baby sitter list I don't have to care. To note she never watches my daughter I've asked her a few times so we could have a date night or I have an appt she always has an excuse. I guess the smart thing to do is cut her lose all together. Well thanks for letting me vent I feel better.
on Oct. 27, 2012 at 1:41 AM