What happens on the BIL sex life is not your business and you have no right to judge or automatically dislike this woman because she "ruined a marriage" . There may be details about what went on between husband and wife that you don't know about. For all you know this marriage was over before this event even happened. I understand being angry that your sister in law got hurt but bottom it was the BIL choice to cheat for all you know this woman may have been told the marriage was already over or lord only knows what.
Not be rude but I would like to ask you have you ever been single mom? Maybe this woman just needed a break. Not that screwing around with married men is ok but please take it out on your BIL and give this woman a fair chance. Maybe find out her story.
Quoting Brandi_G:
Im annoyed my bil cheated on my sil who I love with this woman who leaves her son with her mom for days at a time to fuck my bil. Ok atleast the son is safe but what type of mom does that. Dh n I have date nights when son sleep at his grandmas but its maybe once a month not a week straight. I will never like her, n she will never be allowed to watch my son!!!! Ohh n bil desired to tell the whole town he is going to marry her n have babies....wtf. what do u think.
What type of Mom does that? I guess one that is just like the type of Dad that does this. And there are lots of those. People don't think twice about a guy doing this, but if a woman wants sex, she is branded an unfit mother and worse. Somehow, because she's a mother, she's supposed to give up her entire identity.
Not saying I agree with her enabling a cheater, but it's interesting you're villifying the woman and not the BIL.
Women are their own worst enemies. Sheesk.
I agree with this...........she's not the only one that ruined a marriage. HE had sex with her too.......they are both to blame and if he was a man at all, he would have turned her down.
Quoting Bonneata:What happens on the BIL sex life is not your business and you have no right to judge or automatically dislike this woman because she "ruined a marriage" . There may be details about what went on between husband and wife that you don't know about. For all you know this marriage was over before this event even happened. I understand being angry that your sister in law got hurt but bottom it was the BIL choice to cheat for all you know this woman may have been told the marriage was already over or lord only knows what.
Question....if your spouse passes away and you get remarried......
- Brandi_G
on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:58 AM