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I don't enjoy having sex with my husband and I become attracted to girls. Is this ok? I don't know why I feel this way. Is there anyway to get over this or should I get in bed with a girl?
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by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 2:55 PM
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hismommy2010
by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:27 PM
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 You are married, so you are committed to your spouse, or at least should be.

Cheating is cheating, no matter if it's with the same sex or not. If this is something that is bothering you that badly, talk with your husband. Who knows he may be up for letting you get it out of your system, or he may go with letting you stay married to him and have it on the side?

But with that comes other things. So before you open that can of worms, make sure you are ready for anything that may come with it. And by that I mean, if you ask hubby if you can try a female to see if that's what you are really wanting, be ready for him to try other females while you are having your fun. Or if he wants to do a 3 some with you, be ready to feel jealousy or other emotions...

 

best wishes

sjump25
by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:28 PM

Of course!  

Quoting AnayaFatima:

Would I be cheating if I did it with a girl ?


bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:31 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:31 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:31 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:32 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:32 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:32 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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bigmama423
by Liz on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:32 PM
I agree with the other ladies...
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MissApple234
by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 5:51 PM
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Your husband may be intreeged by the idea.  Some guys like the idea that their spouse want to spice things up by trying something new.  Whatever you decide you need to make sure you have talked about it, what is a relationship if not someone to share your adventure of life with?

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