So I feel like it is right to have another child. You know how some people just get that feeling of its time? Well, I talked to my husband a while ago and told him. He flip flopped, saying he wasnt sure. But we tried. Once. Then he said "you know, I really don't want another." I just had a month where I was a week late, then had the witch come and I am really disapointed. And after telling him this last night he said "can't you respect that I don't want another one?" Ha, well can't he respect that I do? This is an argument that there isn't much middle ground. Right now is a perfect opportunity b/c I will have a window for a break in school for due dates. He wants me to wait till I'm done with school....about 3 years from now. That would make me 30 and I've told him from the get go I didn't want any after 28! He knows and knew this. *sigh* Originally we talked about having 2 and he seemed good with it. I just don't know what to do. I feel cheated and sad. I love my husband very much and want the experience of creating another beautiful life with him. He says our finances are too strapped, but I think it would be ok. We spend our "strapped cash" very carelessly now. I keep having dreams that I lose my children and wake up in tears. I just don't know how to deal with this. How to open his eyes? Any advice? Tips to get thru these feelings? I can't really explain how or why my feeling is so strong to have another child but it's really affecting me mentally. I fear that 5 years down the line I will be really upset and (hopefully not) resentful that we never tried again. I don't want this to come between our relationship but still. I'm just lost. I am working my ass off to get thru school to provide a nice lifestyle for us, and yes, we are on a budget, but being the budget queen I am, I truly feel we can handle this. Please help with any stories, help on dealing with this feeling? Thanks ladies.