If a couple had a surrogate mother, who do you throw a baby shower for

[vinalex0581]

the couple who's going to have the baby or the surrogate who carries the baby for 9 months?

Doesn't the surrogate deserve something?

[RoxyJI]

As a surrgoate, I don't expect anything. I would love to be involved and present at the shower though. Not possible for me though since my intended parents are international.

[hollydaze1974]

Yes, she deserves a gift card party for all those new clothes she'll be able to get into
Again! Target, kohls, Ross, t j maxx, any store that has a clothing section!

If someone has be selfless enough to feel sick, pee constantly, heartburn, the first kicks that had be exciting yet a little sad....she deserves AT least a new wardrobe afterwards, IMO !

There will be a shower for the baby, all the stuff they asked for /need for the new arrival.

A surrogate deserves more than a thank you card. Her hormones will be the ones out of whack for months, maybe even a form of depression....a retail therapy shower for her would be a great idea!

[PurpleHazey]

No, for the women who will keep the baby!

[stillkim]

I would have the shower for the couple and invite the surrogate.

[hayliedlr]

both, I am sure that they have a diff circle of friends so you could throw for both. the couple raising the baby could get all the baby things and the surrogate could get things to be pampered with.

[LivinDeadGurl]

I would throw the shower for the couple and maybe do something else nice for the surrogate.

[Rocsi718]

You throw the bby shower for the couple, I would get the surrogate special gift for her kindness and generosity.