See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
So i will try to make this short. My ex and i were together for 15yrs. I have two children before we met. Even tho we were together for sometime and did marry, Xh did not take a active role in caring for the boys. In fact he would get annoyed if they interferred with any of his time w me. when we met i was a very successful fulltime working mom. My mother watched the kids. So the XH never had them when i was working. Needless to say Xh selfishness among many other things caused me to divorce him. My boys were so happy I finally did. We have been divorced for almost 4 yrs now. And we share a son who is 7.
ANyway....with all this said. My XH went and got a tatoo with all 3 boys initials in it. My older boys are mortified and cant believe he did such a thing. I wouldnt even have a opinion if it was just our son(outside of my own beliefs, which are the native way...you dont put names, initials, of any sort unless that person has passed)..but hes not native so hes allowed i guess. But the fact he included MY older boys......just blows my mind. BUT as I stated before.....WHY AM I SO SURPRISED. My BFF says i have no right to be anymore. He has done so many things that are so wrong, in so many ways.......
ok vent over.....lol