Is she taking a stab at me for being a single working mother?
Or am I being sensitive? Here is the message
Hi. I was going through A------'s phone and I seen messages between her and R--- and I just want you to know that, the reason my daughter is not allowed over your house is because of what happen, im not saying it couldn't happen here but we are always home. if im not here my husband is here if he's not I am. There's always supervision here. I just don't want my daughter at someone's house with out the proper supervision. I know you work and its just you, and that's what im saying. I know my daughter is no angel but I have heard conversations regarding R-----, and I would really keep an eye on her. I don't know if what I've heard is true but I just thought I should let you know. I know as a mom I would want to know anything my daughter was doing that was inappropriate.
The incident she was talking about what when her dd was staying the night at my house. It was about 11 at night and I was in bed. I heard this crash in my house so I went to investigate. I heard a boys voice so I went to check on the girls. Their door was locked and I banged on the door for them to open it. When I went in, the girls (my 2 girls and A) were sitting on their beds and I asked who that was and they denied knowing what I was meaning. So I looked around the room and found a boy under their bed. I freaked out. Apparently this boy had run away from home and snuck in the bathroom window upstairs. Right away I tried to call this boys mother but he ran out the door. I told A that I was calling her mother and she beat me to it. When her mother arrived I talked to her mother to explain what happened and we grounded the girls from each other and some other punishments for this incident.
1st. last weekend they were begging for this girl to come over and A was getting angry that I wasn't letting her come over. I don't trust her.
2nd. My girls do not go anywhere. They don't go to friends houses to stay the night or even just to hang out. If they even go outside it's in the back yard.
3rd. during the summer I did allow them to go to the park that is around the corner but after hearing some things that these girls were planning I put a stop to it.
4th. I lost my job last month so I am not working at this moment and always home
5th. When I was working, I got off at 4pm and the girls got home from school at 4:45 (yes it is quite late because of the long bus ride home) So they were never home alone.
6th. on the weekends my sister would stay a majority of the day with them and no friends were allowed here even if my sister was here.
So what do you ladies think? Am I being overly sensitive or is she taking a jab at me for working and being single?
I am a little on the defensive side I know that but I am just curious what others think.