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Do you think she was rude?

Posted by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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My step-dad's niece is having a Bat Mitzvah celebration in a couple of months.

Last week, her dad (my step-dad's brother) asked my mom if she could find out if I was coming or not. 

Three days ago, I got this message from her mom on Facebook: 

"I was just wondering if you and Seth were planning on attending Lindsay's bat mitzvah. I am trying to finalize tables and some other details and really need to know. Thanks... "

Responses are "due" tomorrow. I put mine in the mail yesterday, which is cutting it close, I admit, possibly even going to get there late, but it was not late when she sent me that message.

Would you be annoyed with a message like that? 

by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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mrsladyface
by Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:09 PM
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No seems chill to me. Could have just messages her back on Facebook and said yeah we are coming my RSVP will be late in the mail though
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Mesh2
by Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 9:11 PM

I did message her with my response and I let her know that it was in the mail. And it will probably not be late, just right on time. 

jmama0307
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:07 PM

No it wasn't. All you had to say yes we are going. I send out the rsvp so it should get to you shortly by the end of this week 

calimom1123
by Bronze Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:14 PM
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No she wasnt rude. I think its rude to wait until the very last minute to respond to an rsvp. I would have just messeged her back and said yes we are going.
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bigmama423
by Liz on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:27 PM
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Doesn't seem rude to me..
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sjump25
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:30 PM
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I don't think it sounds rude...

1L2CMommy
by Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:35 PM
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Nope not rude. Don't be so sensitive. If you send RSVP's on time you won't get ask repeatedly if your attending. I thought her message was nice.
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LivinDeadGurl
by Gold Member on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:44 PM

I don't think it sounded rude.

md_1015
by Bronze Member on Dec. 21, 2012 at 9:35 AM
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I think it was fine. When it comes to a big event like that, people want to make sure they have their bases covered. I would do it to double check.
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Kodysmommy928
by Jennifer on Dec. 21, 2012 at 10:03 AM
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Not rude at all. 

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