I hate it when dh says he'll change the baby's diaper but then just waits for me to do it. I'll get out of the shower and find him in the room saying he was about to change her diaper, then why is he sitting on the bed waiting for me to get out of the shower?
It is like this with literally every household task. It would honestly bug me less if he just wouldn't offer instead of offering to do something with no intention of actually doing it and then acting like a hero.
I had been up with the baby until 4 the night before, he said i could take a short nap. I go to take my nap and five minutes later he's in the room wanting to hang out with me. I'm not working right now (I'll go back to work) so i don't expect him to do much around the house but seriously changing 1 wet diaper every once in awhile, entertaining dd while I'm in the shower and carrying the laundry basket downstairs are not major tasks.