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Posted by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 1:10 AM
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SO many questions please anyone help!!
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Kmakksmom
by Stefanie on Jan. 4, 2013 at 2:35 AM

What are your questions?

little.worthen
by Tessie on Jan. 4, 2013 at 2:36 AM
The answers are yes.
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bree00
by Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 2:48 AM
I'm 16. I know I'm young to be having sex. I am on no birth control because I was planning to be a virgin until married. I lost my virginity on Christmas (25th) my bf had no protection. and I think I might be pregnant. i pee all the time, my stomach feels weird throughout the day.. a couple days after I had sex I saw a light pink spot when I whipped. Monday, the 31st I started my period which only lasted 3 days (ending today). today was my last day. The bloo was reddish and brownish.. I have had no pregnancy tests done. do you think it's possible I'm pregnant? my last period was November 28th.. I was supposed to start again, December 28th.. my periods are usually regular, the only time they aren't is when I am playing softball & working out.
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Lindalou907
by Bronze Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 5:25 AM
I doubt it but go and get a pregnancy test.
Kodysmommy928
by Jennifer on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:56 AM

 I would lay money that you're not pregnant because you would not have been ovulating at the time of the sex.  You also wouldn't be experiencing symptoms this early.  I personally think that you dodged a bullet.

 Now, if you are going to continue to engage in sexual activity, then you really should be responsible about it, take control of your own sexual health. Make him use a condom every single time and get yourself on birth control.  There are things out there that you can contract that a way worse than a baby.  Can you imagine having to tell every partner you will ever have for the rest of your life that you contracted herpes when you were 16 because some stupid teenage boy convinced you that he shouldn't wear a condom? 

Having a baby is a challenge at any age.  I am sure that you have things that you want to do with your life, I can promise you that finishing school and going to college become a million times harder if you have a baby.  I know I am just some stranger on the internet but I just don't want to see you go down that road. 

Quoting bree00:

I'm 16. I know I'm young to be having sex. I am on no birth control because I was planning to be a virgin until married. I lost my virginity on Christmas (25th) my bf had no protection. and I think I might be pregnant. i pee all the time, my stomach feels weird throughout the day.. a couple days after I had sex I saw a light pink spot when I whipped. Monday, the 31st I started my period which only lasted 3 days (ending today). today was my last day. The bloo was reddish and brownish.. I have had no pregnancy tests done. do you think it's possible I'm pregnant? my last period was November 28th.. I was supposed to start again, December 28th.. my periods are usually regular, the only time they aren't is when I am playing softball & working out.

 

bigmama423
by Liz on Jan. 4, 2013 at 11:04 AM

She nailed it! I agree with this..

Quoting Kodysmommy928:

 I would lay money that you're not pregnant because you would not have been ovulating at the time of the sex.  You also wouldn't be experiencing symptoms this early.  I personally think that you dodged a bullet.

 Now, if you are going to continue to engage in sexual activity, then you really should be responsible about it, take control of your own sexual health. Make him use a condom every single time and get yourself on birth control.  There are things out there that you can contract that a way worse than a baby.  Can you imagine having to tell every partner you will ever have for the rest of your life that you contracted herpes when you were 16 because some stupid teenage boy convinced you that he shouldn't wear a condom? 

Having a baby is a challenge at any age.  I am sure that you have things that you want to do with your life, I can promise you that finishing school and going to college become a million times harder if you have a baby.  I know I am just some stranger on the internet but I just don't want to see you go down that road. 

Quoting bree00:

I'm 16. I know I'm young to be having sex. I am on no birth control because I was planning to be a virgin until married. I lost my virginity on Christmas (25th) my bf had no protection. and I think I might be pregnant. i pee all the time, my stomach feels weird throughout the day.. a couple days after I had sex I saw a light pink spot when I whipped. Monday, the 31st I started my period which only lasted 3 days (ending today). today was my last day. The bloo was reddish and brownish.. I have had no pregnancy tests done. do you think it's possible I'm pregnant? my last period was November 28th.. I was supposed to start again, December 28th.. my periods are usually regular, the only time they aren't is when I am playing softball & working out.

 


Kris_PBG
by Representative on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:11 PM

What do you need help with?

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