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TRUE FREINDS

Posted by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:41 PM
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 Just a question: If one of your best freinds father passes away and you can't make the srevices would it be ok to go visit her the next day to show support or would that be a bad freind?

by on Jan. 8, 2013 at 11:41 PM
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bigmama423
by Liz on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:03 AM

You should still try to see her and show your support.

househoder
by New Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:06 AM

As a good freind showing up the next day would be supportive?

bigmama423
by Liz on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:17 AM

If you can't honestly be there for the service, I think it would be good to see her when you can. Not seeing her at all seems kinda messed up...??

househoder
by New Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:22 AM

TRUE. I am going to go see her. Thank you for your input.

bigmama423
by Liz on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:25 AM

Losing your dad is tough to deal with. My dad passed away 2 years ago. I really think you should, I mean it can't really hurt. If she doesn't want it I'm sure she'll tell you or you'll figure it out, know what I mean? :)


househoder
by New Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:30 AM

I know I just don't want to drive four hours the next day to be rejected but I truely coulnd't make it my 2year old ended up with strep throat the day before the services and I feel really bad about missing the service. I just want het to know I am true freind and want to support her.

bigmama423
by Liz on Jan. 9, 2013 at 12:32 AM
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I'm sure you'll figure out what's best! Give her a call maybe?


hopealways4019
by Bronze Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 10:03 AM
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My friend didn't make it to my son funeral. She still haven't came to see me. But if you have a good reason for being unable to attend? That don't make you a bad friend, at least you coming next day, to show support.
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hayliedlr
by JoAnna on Jan. 10, 2013 at 10:16 AM

at least you can to make it the next day.  I would send flowers for the service (not sure if the day has passed yet)

TexasMami409
by on Jan. 10, 2013 at 2:07 PM
I think if yall are true friends then she'll understand and appreciate a visit the day after
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