Ok so I'm about to get married in a few months, ive been engaged for almost a year now. My future mother in law has asked where we have registered and i said no where. We feel like we have everything we would need for our home, actually more than we need :), and after discussing this we feel like we would rather have money instead of gifts. Only for the reason being that the things we need for our home are like major upgrades. Its not like we can ask people to buy us new windows and sinks and things like that. So how would we go about asking for money instead of gifts and not sound rude or greedy. Please help me!!!!!