Been with my fiance for 6 yrs we have been through it all except divorce, we haven't gotten married yet bc of my fear of this among other things. I am not the person I was when we fel in love and hes not the person I thought he was. I noticed alot of negative characteristics that I dont see changing bc he doesnt see or just wont admit the issues. I think he is who he is and i dont see that changing. He will change some things but for a couple days and I think its only so he dont have to hear my nagging for that time period. Our sex life has dwindled by alot and when we do its not near what it used to be, It really started 19 mths ago when our daughter was born, My body is def diff than what it was but I was never thin as long as we have been together. I understand fat isnt attractive to everyone and hey kudos but u had a part of making my body what it is, it takes 2 to make a baby only 1 has to carry and have that baby, so I think he should be more understanding of my body. I am currently working on a lifestyle program bc I dont want him looking at me the way he does anymore, when i tell him I know my body is the reason we arent intimate like we used to be he says no thats not why or just doesnt say anything at all. There are certain activities we did frequently that we haven't in over a yr. idk if its jus me being dramatic or if this is something to worry about like cheating or if he just is longer attracted to me, but I know this plus alll of the fighting and arguing isnt good for anyone and I dont know what to do anymore theres just so much wrong and so little right that Im just feeling over this, but I just cant actually break up with him.