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Lets get a Divorce so we can get more Money from Welfare! Update

Posted by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 1:37 PM
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They have mediation on Monday and are supposed to come to an agreement on custody of their oldest. If they can't then the judge will decide for them the Monday after. I hope she wins this...

That is what my sil's soon to be ex said to her. They separated a year ago when their dd was 1 1/2 and she was pregnant with their second. She's been wanting to work it out but he's being super flaky, flip flopping around. One minute saying yes they'll get back together then filing for divorce and suing for custody of their 2yo the next.

His latest scheme was on Valentines day. He told her he had a surprise for her. She was all excited! So he calls and tells her that he still loves her and wants to be with her and be a family again. *She swoons* Then he says "But I still want a divorce and custody of the oldest." "We can still be together but this way we'll get more money from Welfare." His reasoning is, she gets 650 for both kids. But if they split the kids, they'll each get 520 and he won't have to pay child support.

Welfare fraud at it finest....She said hell no, I'll see you in court then hung up on him. What a shitty Valentines day :-(

by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 1:37 PM
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sjump25
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 1:39 PM
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Wow.  Just wow.

bigmama423
by Liz on Feb. 19, 2013 at 1:41 PM
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What she said!

Quoting sjump25:

Wow.  Just wow.

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paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:00 PM
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I know right? Forget getting a job and supporting your wife and kids, defrauding welfare is soo much better!

Quoting sjump25:

Wow.  Just wow.


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Mom2wife1
by Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 2:06 PM
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BOO! Deadbeat dude!

paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 19, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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Yep, oh and he doesn't want to pay child support too. *eye roll*

Quoting Mom2wife1:

BOO! Deadbeat dude!


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Thelmama
by Thelma on Feb. 19, 2013 at 3:27 PM

Wow.......... that is messed up.

coco.oakes
by New Member on Feb. 19, 2013 at 3:55 PM
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ew. its people like him that give the system a bad name. i hope she's over him for good now.

paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Feb. 19, 2013 at 4:01 PM

It really is! And I hope so too. She still loves him but she knows it's over.

Quoting coco.oakes:

ew. its people like him that give the system a bad name. i hope she's over him for good now.


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MJP76
by on Feb. 19, 2013 at 5:24 PM

Wow.

Kris_PBG
by Representative on Feb. 19, 2013 at 8:35 PM

Wow - he is quite the "peach"!

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