Here's my situation:
I go sometimes to my mom and dad's on Sundays with the girls, we were going out there at 5:30 and leaving at 8:30 getting home at 9:00 ( the girls' bedtime) I get up at 5:15 every morning to have coffee with DH before the kids get up at 6:00.
Well, I asked my mom if we could come out at 4:00 or 4:30 and leave at 6 or 6:30 so I could come home and fix supper ( instead of them having to eat at 3:30 or 4:00 to leave at 5 to get to their house) and so the girls wouldn't want to snack over there and go straight to bed when we come home.
Well, we went 1 time out there at 4:30 and it was fine mom didn't like that we only were there 2 hours but, anyways the next weekend after Valentin'es day we didn't go cause my youngest didn't feel good. I called 2 hours before we were supposed to come but mom and my sister who lives elsewhere had already made stuff to celebrate valentine's. We didn't go. They were disappointed and we were to. Mom tells me this yesterday that we will have to come out at 5:30 like we used to cause it just doesn't give her time to get the house cleaned and her running to town done if we come at 4:30. So would you go out there and only spend an hour or would you not go ? Advise please, I'm not sure what I want to do.