Am I being silly

[Confussed34]

To male a long story short my husband has been having seizures since 99 and every test he ever been admitted into the hospital for for them I was with in yes I was allowed to stay over night with him. The last test was in 2010 and he was in the hospital for like a week and I was there everyday with him. Now he has to go back the end of march I asked him if he could ask for a summer app so this way our son was outmofnsvhool and could stay with my parents and he would have somewhere to go with not having to worry about school anyway he said to me that I could stay home with our son. I'm very upset I wanna be there with him like I always was I mean I know this cant be about me bc it's not I know that. But I feel like he doesn't want me with him the drs like when I go bc I could really tell when he has a seizure and I let the nurses know he is having one if he can't push the button he has to push. I just wanna be with him. :-(

[RedSox944]

 Of course you want to be with him, I would want to be with my hubby too during something like that. Why don't you go during the day and then see how it goes in the evening time. Maybe he will be comfortable seeing that you are there and not going anywhere.

Mo

[Kodysmommy928]

I would want to be there, too.  I would talk to him about it again.  Summer is still quite a ways off and I think I would want to have the testing done ASAP.  Do you think he could be a little more worried about the testing this time?

[loveTHEviking]

I would want to be w/ my hubby too! I'm sure you guys will work something out. Summer is still a ways off :).

[Kmakksmom]

I can understand you wanting to be there. I hope you can talk to him and both come up with a compromise.

[Kris_PBG]

Have you talked with him about why he wants something different this time?

[want10more]

i think he's feeling like a burden to you, and trying to protect u n his lil un. tell him i know u can do this alone but that thot hurts me! i WANT to be with you! poor dolly, i think he's feeling less of a man right now, try to buck him up, by saying, wow i'd sure want YOU with me. we are together on this and everything.

[CharlotteRose]

 

Quoting loveTHEviking:

I would want to be w/ my hubby too! I'm sure you guys will work something out. Summer is still a ways off :).