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8 year old viewed hardcore PORN!

Posted by on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:48 PM
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It turns out my middle child hasn't gave me enough grey hairs yet! I allowed her to go over to a friends house from school..The child's mother calls me to tell me sorry " they have net flicks and wasn't aware the children would find "those" kind of things on there" PORN The mother only discovered it when she looked at recently viewed history. Apparently is was hard core porn from what she found. And the question the mother had was who's idea was it to even look for "those" kinds of things? Each kid blamed it on one another. I am very troubled with the idea my daughter had even seen that and don't know how to correctly approach this. I was more upset the parents didnt have a better idea of their system and lack of adult supervision..Im mad at myself for letting her over, confused on what exactly to say etc..When should "the talk"happen? The mother told me that she since then has put a lock on the control settings. I have a real reservation about sending my kids anywhere now..I know I can't always protect them: just feels like she's been instilled with images that will mess with her head. She's too young! What do I do?

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Jscott1216
by on Mar. 4, 2013 at 11:58 PM
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First of all Netflix while they do have movies with nudity, they do not carry hardcore porn and they also have a just for kids option. So whatever your child and the other parents child viewed it most definitely did not come from Netflix. And I know this because we have it here and if it had ANYTHING even close to hard core porn it would not be allowed in the house esp since I have a teenager now and he gives me enough grey hairs too. Lol

Second your child is only 8, while I think it's appropriate to start having the talk with them I also think that you could probably just go with that's not appropriate, you're not in trouble just remember people don't act like that in real life. Etc..... Also where the hell was this parent when they allowed the kids to just start browsing the Internet alone at that age for movies?
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Jennifer6712
by Member on Mar. 5, 2013 at 7:21 AM
Yeah I asked myself that same question the mom said they were awake watching TV in their room with her sister N husband when all that happened. I don't have Netflix so I wasn't sure I guess if its connected to the Internet the kids would have typed a keyword search. I asked my daughter why they done that she denied it "till the bitter end" saying she wasn't the one who looked it up. I asked "why" she replied "when {the other kid} looked it up she typed THE SEX IN THE CITY and found the porn. Aggravating but the net is flooded with crap like that I was at the library once and accidentally pressed the wrong button and porn images pulled up. I was so imbarrested...
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Clubpenguin
by Member on Mar. 5, 2013 at 9:25 AM
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Same thing happened to my oldest ds when he was eight. He was at a friends and they looked at his older brothers porn. I don't know what it was but ds said there were horses and people together. We had a sex talk after that and I made sure he understood what he saw was not natural or right. Of course he didnt want to watch that again so I didn't have to worry about him being over there.
hayliedlr
by JoAnna on Mar. 5, 2013 at 2:54 PM
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hardcore pawn maybe?

they don't have porn on there that I know of

paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on Mar. 5, 2013 at 3:07 PM

They have porn on netflix??

Lordgodempress
by Member on Mar. 5, 2013 at 3:15 PM

Netflix doesn't have porn..

Supermere
by New Member on Mar. 5, 2013 at 3:23 PM
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My heart goes out to you! My husband discovered yesterday that our 8 year old daughter was looking up mating images on yahoo and google when he looked up the history on our iPad!  She was looking up My Little Pony at first, but some sicko decided to make dirty images of My Litte Pony characters having sex, including showing human-type genitals!  And she only discovered them when she looking for innocent pictures of her favorite characters! After that, we looked up the rest of the history on our iPad and she had looked up mating animals, mating dragons, MLP sex (My Little Pony), and more!  I was horrified when I saw the history and tried many ways to block those searches through logging into my Yahoo and Google. It doesn't work. If you have a genius child who can figure out anything, she'll know to log off your account and voila! Access to adult content available!  Yahoo and Google should be responsible enough to make sure those images are not linked to kids' sites and images, or just plain delete them from ever showing up period!  I had a talk with her this morning and told her she cannot use the Internet alone, never again!  We live in a very sick, and disgusting world and I don't want my children ever being exposed to traumatizing, sick images and videos from sick, demented perfects around the world!  What to do??!!!

childofGod995
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:32 AM
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as a parent i would think one of the parents should of picked the movie for the children and occasionally checked up on them to make sure they were not watching something they should of not of been watching. just because the adults were watching a movie does not mean they could not of spent just a few minutes checking up on the children.

Kris_PBG
by Representative on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:11 PM
What a disaster!

Did you ask your daughter what images she actually saw?
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PurpleHazey
by Angie on Mar. 6, 2013 at 9:23 PM

oh no! I would blow a nut!

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