It turns out my middle child hasn't gave me enough grey hairs yet! I allowed her to go over to a friends house from school..The child's mother calls me to tell me sorry " they have net flicks and wasn't aware the children would find "those" kind of things on there" PORN The mother only discovered it when she looked at recently viewed history. Apparently is was hard core porn from what she found. And the question the mother had was who's idea was it to even look for "those" kinds of things? Each kid blamed it on one another. I am very troubled with the idea my daughter had even seen that and don't know how to correctly approach this. I was more upset the parents didnt have a better idea of their system and lack of adult supervision..Im mad at myself for letting her over, confused on what exactly to say etc..When should "the talk"happen? The mother told me that she since then has put a lock on the control settings. I have a real reservation about sending my kids anywhere now..I know I can't always protect them: just feels like she's been instilled with images that will mess with her head. She's too young! What do I do?