I (29) have had another fall out with my youngest sister (23), we have big blow out arguements every now and then. this is mostly because we dont get on and feel uncomfortable around each other.
My mom and other sister (28) think we are 2 peas in a pod and that we need to get together (with or without a mediator) and discuss what our issues are with each other. this stems back to childhood so i cant explain everything.
I am looking for opinions and advice on wiether I should talk with her or not.
If i talk to her i 'think' we are both going to get very hurt by the truth about how we make each other feel. also she will deny some of the things she has said to me in the ast but expect me to own up to the things i have said and the same goes for times she has let me down.
If we don't talk about it we either:
ignore the situation and try to just get on when we do see each other (this has proved as a bad idea peviously)
or if she agrees we can completely avoid each other and take it turns attending family gatherings (which are regular)
thanks very much for reading, all questions welcome!