Im 8 1/2 months into my second pregnancy. My husband and i were both smokers. I quit when i saw a positive test. I have not smoked diring either pregnancy. Husband promised to do the same. Result: he left me during active labor to have one during my first pregnancy. Second time around. Result: had a cigar just tonight! During both pregnancies he would say hehad stopped, and then would constantlybe gone on random errands, come back smelling and then lie to me when i asked him point blanke. I told him this time: i trust you to quit... just dont lie. Tonight he leaves, comes back smelling and i say "did you smoke?" He said "no" i pushed it further he denied it. Then i looked at him and said " this is one of those golden opportunities to tell me the truth" he then admited it. When i sighed in frustration he got mad at me for being upset. Hes in bed now, wont talk to me because he works in the morning and its too late. Why am i being punished when he is the one who is betraying me? For the second time!
on Mar. 13, 2013 at 12:02 AM