My dh and I have been married for almost 10 years, every summer (except for the last few years) dh's three dd's would come stay with us for most of the summer. (We live in MN and they live in TN). Youngest sd is 20 and pregnant. She text dh today and said she wants him to be there when the baby is born. His ex said he could stay at their house... My conundrum is does she only want him to go or is it my dd and myself?