My hubby & I have been really trying to find where wed like to move out of california. Obviously somewhere that there are jobs, a relatively low cost of living, and a place that is safe to raise a family (as we have four and one on the way). We see that North Dakota has an immense amount of jobs especially in the oil fields but there is zero to none housing. Also with further research I've found that the ratio is that woman are very far and few between and have been assulted, slandered etc. How is it actually living there? Do any of you experience this problem? How can North Dakota be such a wonderful place to live with all of this going on? Please give me some insight :) Thanks in advance.