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Posted by on May. 4, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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so my husbands grandma came up to me at church when someone was talking to me about our sons upcoming heart surgery and she said in a very rude comment, dont feel sorry or pity for eli dont even worry if you want to worry about any child go to a childrens cancer ward there are children there they need someone to worry about them.

i just looked at her and couldnt even open my mouth if was so rude and hurtful, i just wanted to cry. she also thinks shes a know it all. the guy was saying how long they think his recovery will be and i told him it depends on his ability to swollow after the tubes that were in his throat because the dr told me that in babies this young they lose there ability to swollow and he just needs to learn again. she said no they dont its called sore throat he will be fine and the drs dont know what they are talking about after that i just walked away and told my husband i wanted to leave. she really hurt my feelings she has never been that rude to me and uncaring especially to her great grandson

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nurse1997
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 10:47 PM

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 

Kris_PBG
by Representative on May. 4, 2013 at 10:49 PM
Wow - she sounds like a PEACH!

Stay away from her - she sounds toxic
momma2mms
by Kristin on May. 4, 2013 at 10:50 PM

WOW! People are just nuts. Stay away from her.

Narwa
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 10:50 PM

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 


Like my baby boys CHD awareness page https://www.facebook.com/CHDEliasPierceStory

Narwa
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 10:51 PM

if you talking about the hotel money because ronald mcdonald house is full yes my mother in law said the church is going to help because my father in law is a pastor, and he found someone who was willing to help us

Quoting Narwa:

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 



Like my baby boys CHD awareness page https://www.facebook.com/CHDEliasPierceStory

nurse1997
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 10:57 PM

 

You were the one that said she was on ssi  right? water bill, rent ?

Quoting Narwa:

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 



 

Narwa
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 10:59 PM

oh yea we got it figured out, we got the garbage bill fixed and we got the 50.00 for rent fixed so we are good 

the only struggle we are having right now is gas to and from spokane and food while we are there but we are getting things figured out one by one we just got the hotel stay while we are there figured out

Quoting nurse1997:


You were the one that said she was on ssi  right? water bill, rent ?

Quoting Narwa:

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 





Like my baby boys CHD awareness page https://www.facebook.com/CHDEliasPierceStory

nurse1997
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 11:00 PM

 I think we were  talking the oither day ;]


Quoting Narwa:

 

so my husbands grandma came up to me at church when someone was talking to me about our sons upcoming heart surgery and she said in a very rude comment, dont feel sorry or pity for eli dont even worry if you want to worry about any child go to a childrens cancer ward there are children there they need someone to worry about them.

i just looked at her and couldnt even open my mouth if was so rude and hurtful, i just wanted to cry. she also thinks shes a know it all. the guy was saying how long they think his recovery will be and i told him it depends on his ability to swollow after the tubes that were in his throat because the dr told me that in babies this young they lose there ability to swollow and he just needs to learn again. she said no they dont its called sore throat he will be fine and the drs dont know what they are talking about after that i just walked away and told my husband i wanted to leave. she really hurt my feelings she has never been that rude to me and uncaring especially to her great grandson


 

nurse1997
by Member on May. 4, 2013 at 11:03 PM

 Good glad to hear things are better this week maybe your husbands dad the pastor can do a basket for the baby thru the chruch


Quoting Narwa:

oh yea we got it figured out, we got the garbage bill fixed and we got the 50.00 for rent fixed so we are good 

the only struggle we are having right now is gas to and from spokane and food while we are there but we are getting things figured out one by one we just got the hotel stay while we are there figured out

Quoting nurse1997:

 

You were the one that said she was on ssi  right? water bill, rent ?

Quoting Narwa:

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 


 

 



 

Narwa
by Member on May. 5, 2013 at 12:25 AM

they are tons better

Quoting nurse1997:

 Good glad to hear things are better this week maybe your husbands dad the pastor can do a basket for the baby thru the chruch


Quoting Narwa:

oh yea we got it figured out, we got the garbage bill fixed and we got the 50.00 for rent fixed so we are good 

the only struggle we are having right now is gas to and from spokane and food while we are there but we are getting things figured out one by one we just got the hotel stay while we are there figured out

Quoting nurse1997:


You were the one that said she was on ssi  right? water bill, rent ?

Quoting Narwa:

money?

Quoting nurse1997:

Sorry honey people are just rude bu its always worse when its family- Did you get the money you needed ? 








Like my baby boys CHD awareness page https://www.facebook.com/CHDEliasPierceStory

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