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i think so. I always go overboard tho and give too much. I buy bulky things off eBay like pens, date books, etc. and then I want to share with every one. It's a curse my mom and grandmother passed down. An overactive nurtureing gene. If I could find it, I'd have it removed..lol.
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff! Life is too short as it is.
Yes I feel like I definitely have
no not exactly. overall i'm nice. i'm shy though. backward. all the time. i dunno. but i do try to be. : )
I think so but I am a pushover though
yes i had been my whole life until last year. right after we lost our baby at 38 weeks pretty much all our friends and some family just went mia and didnt really bother talking with us even anymore. emma died from a birth defect which after testing we now know dh is a carrier for.
now i get how no one knows what to say when someone loses a baby much less so close to due date, but they either said things trying to minimise our loss like it wasnt as much of a loss because she wasnt a live birth, ect or they just never said a thing and have avoided us. a time when we have trully needed somthing trying to turn to others for emotional help and support and they just vanish.
the one child loss support group in the area havent returned our call, our midwifes, our drs or our preists. we have tried getting help through seeing a shrink but no they either want the amount of rent money every week (bit over 400) or they dont have someone on staff equipped to handle that or they are not taking on any new patients. everywhere we have turned and tried to get help has been a door slammed in our face. i see my preist about it because he doesnt charge anything and is more than happy to sit and talk and help us through this.
ive poured so much time , effort and even money at times helping out friends, sure i always kept my shit straight and hadnt had to ask them for help, but this happened and id really needed someone to talk to just emotional suppport and they vanish or distance themselves.
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