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Question....if your spouse passes away and you get remarried......

Posted by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 1:41 PM
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when you pass away....who do you get buried beside ? Your first husband/wife or your second husband/wife?

 

I think I'd go with my 1st husband - or whoever I was married to longer.

by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 1:41 PM
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LML1
by Kristy on Jun. 19, 2013 at 3:01 PM

 Depends who bought the plot plan with you...

 

Kris_PBG
by Representative on Jun. 19, 2013 at 5:05 PM
I hope to never need to know!
offrdngal
by Terri on Jun. 19, 2013 at 5:38 PM
I'll be cremated so my ashes can be spread all over kingdom, for all I care.

jomami
by Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 6:18 PM

 What if you don't have a plot plan when your dh dies?  Would you make a plan at that point to be buried next to him or leave your options open? 


Quoting LML1:

 Depends who bought the plot plan with you...

 


 

ambermario4ever
by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 7:26 PM
My father died when I was little and when they bought his plot they bought the one next to it for my mom. She did get remarried but they got divorced. So she will be buried in the plot that is already paid for as she has no life insurance and I don't have a lot of money to pay for everything.
Mommytoaangel
by Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 7:32 PM
If i die dh will cremate me he dies i cremate him an then dhs or my ashes will be buried with them along with our twin boys ashes
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Cherish77
by on Jun. 19, 2013 at 7:41 PM

Well I plan on being cremated, so it doesn't matter really.  I suppose I could have my ashes spread on dhs plot or something, he wants to be burried, but he doesn't know where yet, here in Cali, or in Colorado next to his dad, I have no problem with that really.

amonkeymom
by Amy on Jun. 19, 2013 at 7:47 PM

Interesting dilemma, I've never really thought about it.

I am thinking, if my first husband had passed away while we were married, I probably would've bought a plot next to his so that we'd be buried together.  We're divorced though and there's no way now I'd want to be next to him forever!  lol

whoodathunk
by Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 7:52 PM

I have a plot next to my mother since my father and husband both want to be cremated.  

SweetPea2004
by Member on Jun. 19, 2013 at 8:00 PM

I want to be cremated and put with my second husband no thank you to being next to the ex. Now if my s/o dies they can split my ashes in half.

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