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So a few weeks ago my biological half sister found me on on Facebook. The thing was I didn't know my dad was different then my biological father. Turns out he adopted me when I was little. I have no desire at all to see my biological father but he had 6 other kids, a couple of which what to get to know me.I'm a totally daddy's girl and this make no difference to me who was the man who actually got my mother pregnant. I kinda suspected this for years so while I was surprised I wasn't totally shocked although the slew of siblings was a little twist. I'm 26, so I assumed I was never going to know for sure. My mother admitted that she never meant to keep a secret but my dad doesn't like to talk about it. Which I totally get. Still I find my dad even more amazing that he when through so much. I understand not talking about it but I'm tried of the secret. My mother doesn't want to tell my siblings mostly my sister because she will not understand. I'm fine with that but I don't want it a secret from my children like it was from me. My husband is adopted and that's not a secret I'm just not sure what to do.