We have a little girl together and I don't want her remembering alcohol like I do.
When we first starting going out and talking, I told him what bothered me and why. He knows I have a big issue with alcohol! I don't understand why he would wait til now to bring it all up!
I told him he would not do it around me and our daughter. And if it became something he couldn't live without we were done. Because I didn't want my daughter haunted by memories like I have.
I am now stressing about his bday. Instead of being excited and planning him a special bday... I'm stressing and regretting it already. I don't want it to ruin us and everything we have. It's just something I won't put up with.
Was I wrong to say what I said?
Any advice for me?