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ridiculous?

Posted by on Jul. 21, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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So my friend told me I will not get a bf if I don't let the guy control the relationship and act submissive. She believes that going out without the person your in a relationship with is disrespectful. Also she has to ask her bf if she can add guy friends to her fb. She yelled at me because I am not like her and tells me I will stay single lol.  Opinions. 

by on Jul. 21, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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TheCuriousOne
by Member on Jul. 21, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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Excuse me while I check my calendar. Is this 2013 we're at? 

I am. Not sure about your friend. Talk about lack of self confidence.

arthistmom
by Member on Jul. 21, 2013 at 11:47 PM
She is indeed ridiculous. Good luck to her.
bigmama423
by Liz on Jul. 22, 2013 at 3:00 AM
She is nuts. Unfortunately for her, her future doesn't seem to bright.. :/
PurpleHazey
by Angie on Jul. 22, 2013 at 5:29 AM
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I do what I want, I am grown and I d nothing wrong.

offrdngal
by Terri on Jul. 22, 2013 at 7:17 AM

 I had a friend tell me basically the same.  I told her, "well, I guess I'll just stay single".

That may "work" for your friend and her relationships, but it doesn't work for every relationship.  Don't let her bug you about it.  Keep doing your own thing.  You'll find someone who appreciates you, just the way you are.

sjump25
by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 8:55 AM

She needs to grow a backbone.  A relationship like that would NEVER work for me.

Kmakksmom
by Stefanie on Jul. 23, 2013 at 4:25 PM

That doesn't sound right.  She needs to get with the times, the current times.

esox
by Member on Jul. 23, 2013 at 4:27 PM
Sounds like she has been brain washed and dragged into a cult. There are times to be submissive... but that's usually just for play..
marchantmom06
by Bronze Member on Jul. 23, 2013 at 4:35 PM
I think until you can take care of your 10 million baby daddy problems you need to stop searching for more men.
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hayliedlr
by JoAnna on Jul. 23, 2013 at 5:30 PM
Dumb
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