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So i am 9 weeks pregnant. I am super uber excited about it this will be my 2nd child. But i have not told anyone in my family because i was waiting to tell my parents and i was planning on telling them next week when i have an ultra sound to show them i figured it would make telling them alot better and easier. I am honestly scared to tell my parents that was part of the reason why i was kinda waiting. The back story of why im scared to tell them is because my parents are kinda mean and judgemental even when it comes to the smallest things, i know they mean well but they are just concerned about me and my well being and what not but even though i am married and have been with my husband for 3 years have 1 child already, live in a house, and have not needed there help financialy in quite a while but i still picture the worse happening. when we got pregnant with out first me and my husband had been together for 4 months when we got pregnant with our first and my mom ignored me for like a week because she needed to process everything and because she was dissapointed in me for being so young and for only being with him for 4 months and already getting pregnant. so im hoping it will be different telling this time and they will be happy for me but i still worry. anywho kinda starying from the story, one of my cousins friends that i follow on facebook was selling her bassinet and we were looking for a bassinet so i contacted her and told her id buy it off of her. at tht moment i didnt tell her i was pregnant, but she contacted my cousin which i should have guess would have happened, and told her she was gonna see me today because i was buying the bassinet and my cousin asked her why would she need it, her friend said idk, so then my cousin proceeded to ask my uncle and his girlfriend that im buying my bassinet and why would i need one, and his girlfriend said well she is married so i wouldnt doubt if she is pregnant again. and knowing my family my uncle is going to tell my dad (they are brothers) and my dad is going to tell my mom. and it is all because my entire family cant keep there mouths shut for even a second they feel the need to gossip about everything and everyone in the family. i asked my cousins friend to not tell anyone because of still trying to tell my parents. So im kinda stressing. im super sorry about the long post.