I find it disgusting when women with hold visitation. I think their are disclaimers that do apply. For instance if the judge issues that there is no visitation or if there is no court order. Yes neither one of my sons dads are stellar but I would never with hold visitation I follow the CO. Yes they may not be the best fathers ever but my children have a right to a relationship with their dads and they have fun when they are with them. I think if a father wants to see their child they should be able to. Opinions?