So, July 23, 2013, I told my husband I wanted a divorce. He was abusive and I met someone else and fell in love. It was in no way our intentions to fall in love, but when you find your true soul mate, it's inevitable. My husband and I, along with MY son lived with my parents. After I told my husband that I wanted a divorce, my parents kicked me out. Since then, they have gotten full custody of my son and my husband is still living with them. I miss my son so much and I don't know if and/or when I will be able to get him back. I only get to see him for a couple hours once a week. It really bothers me that my soon-to-be ex husband gets to be around him and I don't, and he's not even his biological father. I can't afford a lawyer, so I can't fight my parents in court. I've tried going through legal services but they don't handle child custody cases. My fiancé and I plan on getting married as soon as our divorces are final and we are allowed to. The only person in my family that is speaking to me other than my son is my father. Everyone else has taken my ex's side and disowned me and chosen him over me. My mother knew about the abuse and blamed me for it, just like she has blamed everything bad that has happened to me on me. I could care less about her, as she has never really been a mother to me. My fiancé is the perfect man and he treats me right. I've even lost all of MY close friends because I left an abusive husband. I'm having a really hard time dealing with the loss of my son. I just don't know what to do anymore...any advice???
on Dec. 16, 2013 at 11:12 PM