So my dh's cousin is 8 years old and lives with his grandpa. Dh's dad came over the other day and told us that not only does his grandpa make the little boy sit naked on the counter every morning while the grandpa brushes his teeth for him, but we also found out that he showers with his grandpa too. At 8 years old. The poor kid still really struggles bad with pooping his pants and i guess the grandpa still uses baby talk with them, ie peepee and poopoo and other such baby words. DH is considering calling CPS but he knows that if he does his already crappy relationship with his grandpa will definately seise to exhist. He is more concerned about the emotional development of his cousin though.