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Does this make him Gay?

Posted by on May. 18, 2014 at 8:24 PM
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Question: In your mind, would that make him gay?

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Of course not. A transgender woman is still a woman regardless.

Sorry but it does. A man who sleeps with someone who has a penis is gay.

I'm on the fence about it...


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I know a guy who is attracted to pre-op transgender women (They still have all their parts) He likes other women also but is not into men in the least! The thing is, in bed he prefers to be the bottom. In your mind, would that make him gay?

*Settle this debate for me!*


by on May. 18, 2014 at 8:24 PM
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aurora.dove
by on May. 18, 2014 at 9:33 PM
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I would say he is probably more along the lines of bisexual than gay if he still enjoys being with other women as well. 

Nimue930
by on May. 18, 2014 at 9:33 PM

 Let me see if I understand this right:  he sleeps with men who feel they are women but haven't had the surgery yet, so they still have a penis?  Is that right?  Does he sleep with them AFTER the surgery and the penis is gone?  If so, then maybe he just prefers that person.  If not, then in my mind, I think he is gay.  Not that it's any big deal, we all have our preferences... but prefering a very specific type of male, it still prefering a male. 

csxt99
by Member on May. 18, 2014 at 10:36 PM
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It sounds like he is bisexual and a lousy greedy lover.

Shadow_Walker
by on May. 18, 2014 at 10:45 PM
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IMHO a transgender woman, pre-op OR post-op, is a woman where it matters.  In her heart and in her mind, she is a WOMAN.  

slashteddy
by Member on May. 18, 2014 at 10:50 PM
I would say no, because a woman is a woman, pre-op or otherwise. However, it sounds pretty close to fetishism. Murky territory, there.
paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on May. 18, 2014 at 11:26 PM
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No. He sleeps with people who identify as women.

Quoting Nimue930:

 Let me see if I understand this right:  he sleeps with men who feel they are women but haven't had the surgery yet, so they still have a penis Is that right?  Does he sleep with them AFTER the surgery and the penis is gone?  If so, then maybe he just prefers that person.  If not, then in my mind, I think he is gay.  Not that it's any big deal, we all have our preferences... but prefering a very specific type of male, it still prefering a male. 




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paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on May. 18, 2014 at 11:26 PM

Why a lousy and greedy lover?

Quoting csxt99:

It sounds like he is bisexual and a lousy greedy lover.




I will not have a temper tantrum nor stomp across the floor.


I will not pout, scream or shout or kick against the door.

I will not throw my food around nor pick upon another.

I’ll always try to be real good because I am the mother.

I am the mother.

I am the mother.














paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on May. 18, 2014 at 11:27 PM

giving heart

Quoting Shadow_Walker:

IMHO a transgender woman, pre-op OR post-op, is a woman where it matters.  In her heart and in her mind, she is a WOMAN.  




I will not have a temper tantrum nor stomp across the floor.


I will not pout, scream or shout or kick against the door.

I will not throw my food around nor pick upon another.

I’ll always try to be real good because I am the mother.

I am the mother.

I am the mother.














paganbaby
by Chesty La Rue on May. 18, 2014 at 11:28 PM

I agree with that. But does only liking anal sex equal a fetish?

Quoting slashteddy: I would say no, because a woman is a woman, pre-op or otherwise. However, it sounds pretty close to fetishism. Murky territory, there.




I will not have a temper tantrum nor stomp across the floor.


I will not pout, scream or shout or kick against the door.

I will not throw my food around nor pick upon another.

I’ll always try to be real good because I am the mother.

I am the mother.

I am the mother.














csxt99
by Member on May. 18, 2014 at 11:29 PM

You said he prefers to receive rather than give.

Quoting paganbaby:

Why a lousy and greedy lover?

Quoting csxt99:

It sounds like he is bisexual and a lousy greedy lover.


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