My bf, my daughter and i were outside our apt & i happen to have his pbone while he was playing with our LO. He phone gets a message saying "maybe tomorrow", now he is buiness for himself and has a ton of friends so i automatically thought it was a friend or maybe work related. But then being a woman my jealously kicked in, so i text the number back "what" an the replay was "i cant come down today maybe tomorrow. No ride" and i then ask who it was and she says "alisha" and i just felt my heart break in 2.
I then ask him about it and he say he didnt know who it was or blah blah blah so i call the number and sure enough its a girl she said he had been calling and texting her all day asking to come meet him and he would give her money, she did say they had never met before and he got her number from a friend.
He says yeah i was going to fuck her so what, you dont give me shit so i have to find it! He said did you not hear her we havent event met i havent cheated on you. I have never distrusted him in this area, im just confused on if i should believe him, forgive him or forget him. We have 3 kids and i love him and i would hate for my babies to be without a dad.
I just need help, advice or something! Sorry for it being long & please no bashing!