Okay- just throwing this out here. When I went to pick the kids up Sunday from their dad I asked when his next day off was (his work week starts on Mondays & as of 9pm Sunday I still didn't know what his days off were for the coming week). He told me "tomorrow" (meaning Monday) & I asked if he was going to get the kids. His exact words were "No, I have too much to get done tomorrow." That's nice- oh & BTW thanks for saying that infront of hte 16 year old who you pretty much YELLED at several months ago because he hung out with his friends instead of spending the day with you- who fell asleep on the couch. But anyway-
So now we are 3 days into the work week & I still don't know his other day off. Our agreement is that I make reasonable accomodations for his work schedule. But that means he has to tell me his days off right??? So I am thinking of having a girlfriend & her kids over either tomorrow or Friday. If I find out he has the day off should I cancel my plans? Or should I tell him he didn't give me his days off so I made plans?