I was just informed by my lawyer that I will have to go to trial this summer with my ex husband... over child support. After 2 years of non payment I got a lawyer and took him to court. Judge said I would claim my daughter every year since he only sees her 4 days a month and ordered child support withheld from his check. He wants to claim her every other year, is fighting back support and paying me back my attorney fees.... He actually said in front of the judge yesterday "this is unfair" ..... OMG!!! Need some help and support ladies.... This man has turned child support into a fight between him and I when its really about him helping support the child he helped make..