So I love to watch Joyce Meyers on t.v. And the other day she was giving a sermon on forgiveness and how important it is. Because 9 times out of 10 the person who hurt us doesnt even think about how we are feeling and us dwelling on it we are only punishing ourselves. So forgiveness is really a favor to yourself. But here is the obedient part-God says if we will be obedient and forgive our enemies,and bless not curse them then he will see to it that they get what they deserve and we will be rewarded. I want this soooooooo bad.