The only thing accomplished by confronting is to point out where their lies failed... so they can do it better the next time.
you hit the nail on the head with that one !
I disagree. I cheated on my stbx and it was just a low point. After I broke it off with the OG, I never did it again, never entertained the idea, even though I was more miserable. I can't tell you ALL the reasons why i made the choice I did....but I won't cheat on anyone again, and I haven't since that fling 4 years ago. I was upfront about what happened with SO before we got involved and we discussed it and he's okay with how things happened, too. I can say with certainty it will never happen again.
I could have told ya that ..once ya take them back they have gotten away with it and it will continue
Agreed! My ex cheated on me back in 2005 & we tried to work things out. Then I got pregnant in 2008 with our 5th child. He was threatening to take all the kids from me if I didn't get an abortion. Little did I know he was already sleeping with another woman! After a month of fighting he finally realized I wasn't going to cave on not getting one. At the time I still had no clue he was cheating on me. It wasn't until 2010 when SHE contacted me that I found out they had been together since before I had gotten pregnant & at that time (2010) she was pregnant!
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