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Once a cheater....

Posted by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 9:11 AM
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Once a cheater always a cheater is so true. Twice ive taken men back that cheated. Believe me ladies they just get more clever about the lies and cover ups
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by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 9:11 AM
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tottaxi
by Gold Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 11:14 AM

Absolutely.

SuddenlySAHM
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 11:29 PM
2 moms liked this

100%

The only thing accomplished by confronting is to point out where their lies failed... so they can do it better the next time.

molly_ann
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:06 AM
Oh yeah they do get more clever! Some I wonder if they pulled out of their butt!
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JuliaWoods99
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:07 AM
true


PhoenixG
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 12:40 PM
Agree...so true!
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cara124
by Cara on Aug. 19, 2012 at 1:02 PM

woohooyou hit the nail on the head with that one !

 

newbie1198
by Bronze Member on Aug. 20, 2012 at 11:01 AM
My exhusband and I were high school sweethearts he cheated on me once in hs, but I chalked that up to the fact that we were young, but then I married him and now 15yrs. later we are divorced because he had an affair now he is married to the mistress,also found out this wasnt his first affair so I wonder if he will cheat on her. I think probably.
miss_AP
by on Aug. 20, 2012 at 6:12 PM

I disagree. I cheated on my stbx and it was just a low point. After I broke it off with the OG, I never did it again, never entertained the idea, even though I was more miserable. I can't tell you ALL the reasons why i made the choice I did....but I won't cheat on anyone again, and I haven't since that fling 4 years ago. I was upfront about what happened with SO before we got involved and we discussed it and he's okay with how things happened, too. I can say with certainty it will never happen again.

tnbabie
by on Aug. 20, 2012 at 8:07 PM

I could have told ya that ..once ya take them back they have gotten away with it and it will continue


CampClan
by Bronze Member on Aug. 20, 2012 at 10:07 PM

Agreed! My ex cheated on me back in 2005 & we tried to work things out. Then I got pregnant in 2008 with our 5th child. He was threatening to take all the kids from me if I didn't get an abortion. Little did I know he was already sleeping with another woman! After a month of fighting he finally realized I wasn't going to cave on not getting one. At the time I still had no clue he was cheating on me. It wasn't until 2010 when SHE contacted me that I found out they had been together since before I had gotten pregnant & at that time (2010) she was pregnant!

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