I'm wondering how often you "check in" with your kids to see how they are adjusting and feeling? How often do you bring it up?
Both my girls seem to have adjusted swimmingly with no ill effects. We've been moved out a few months, we've been following the schedule, things are good. No acting out issues from either one, no behavior problems, no regression. A slight bit of clingyness with me after being at their dads, but that's totally expected. They are still little and just want mommy a lot of time (3yo and 6yo).
But I'm wondering....should I make some time with each of them and bring it up? Ask them how they are doing, if they have any questions, if they are worried about something? My 6yo especially is very prone to suggestion, so I'm a bit worried that by bring it up she will get the impression she SHOULD be sad or worried or confused, even if she's not. I don't want to ignore their feeling and the possibility they need to chat....but I don't want to bring it up when they are doing so great, ya know? And potentially cause problems that don't exist?