I'm leaving my husband in a few weeks. We currently live in Kansas and I'm moving to Missouri. He doesn't care about me taking the kids to another state. My question is should I file for divorce here or in Missouri? You have to be a resident of Missouri for 3 months I think before you can file. Should I Just get a legal separation? I'm confused. What process do I take to get child support and all that? Thanks. Sorry if this is kind of all over the place. Hopefully it makes sense.