I've heard there are rules the court follows as far as having a bed for each child, different age siblings sleeping together, etc.? Anyone have experience with this?
I have a DD7 and DS14. Until now, she usually slept in bed with papi and he slept on a futon in the living room. The court ordered him to buy a bed for her, but he never did. So for the past couple months, he's had them sleeping together on the futon. I hear lots of complaints about that uncomfortable futon.
Now he's moving to another city. I'm pretty sure he's moving in with his gf (which is why he's moving), but he's telling us that he's renting a room with a buddy for now. If I call him on that bluff, I would like to know where he plans for the kids to sleep.
So my question is, can I require that he provide a proper bed for each one?
Where is my line between watching out for my kids' best interests and becoming a meddling b*tch?