want to try to work it out with hubby but him not working is an issue
I haven't lived with my hubby for awhile due for one i wanted him to get counesling and to get a job. It didn't happen so I kicked him out. The condition was that he got a job and cousneling and stayed with them for awhile I may let him move back in. He HAS NOT applied for any work, looked at all when we where married. It IS NOT a matter of the economy or him not being able to work physically. I don't honestly see him getting a job still. But here is my thing for me I need to set a time frame for me on how long I should give it. How long should I give him to find work and YES i know he probably still won't find work , but again for me I feel I need a time limit and can't just decide on one. Also I have no clue on how to talk about this to him or even if I shoudl bring it up again. I really do love him and those have been the only two things I really have wanted out of our marriage all these years for him to do. Work and get help with counseling. He has been going to counseling for the last month and so far so good with that.