My ex asked to switch weekends next weekend, which would end up with me having them the weekend of the 16th, which was supposed to be his. I have all day plans that weekend. I made them a few weeks back. I told him I couldn't switch as I had plans. He said he was planning to go see his older kids in TX. I told him he was dumb for planning an out of state trip on his weekend without asking me FIRST if I could switch. All he said was "fine Nevermind". Now I feel bad because his kids still talk to me and keep saying he never visits. I know he will either not show up to get them and I will have to cancel my plans or he will take them and leave them with his mom or sister all weekend while he's gone. Which I would feel really crappy about. Idk what to do. All the times I ask to switch or ask him to watch them for a day...he says no. Idk why I feel bad but I do.
on Mar. 2, 2013 at 7:26 PM