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6 Months After Divorce

Posted by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 12:39 AM
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Tomorrow marks 6 months of my divorce being finalized. I feel so free!!! I love not being married to him anymore especially because he has really shown what a dick he really is throughout the divorce and still to this day. I have fallen in love with another man that I met 5 days after signing the papers. I just want to let you ladies know that it does get so much better. I felt so helpless and depressed throughout the whole process but now I finally feel free. :)

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flika
by Bronze Member on Mar. 16, 2013 at 7:20 AM
A few days ago was my 6 month too. 2 weeks ago a met a guy with same interests but I'm not ready to go out. In my old job I kept meeting people that asked Me out but never was a click for me. I wonder what would it take for me to finally go out with someone.



Congrats on feeling free! I don't think I feel free yet. I don't get it
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sarahjoy
by Member on Mar. 16, 2013 at 2:01 PM
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I told my ex this month last year that I wanted a divorce :)  It was the hardest decision but yet the at the same time the easiest one ive ever had to make.    Been with my bf next month for a year!  He's great.  He just mentioned the other day that he was thinking about the time we met and something as small as meeting a new person in such a random place could change his life in a good way... and only a year ago. 

Its amazing how things can change in such a short time. A year ago I never would have thought I would be where I am right now.  I'm going through a difficult time with other situations in my life but its still all around better than when I was married. 

mygirls2012
by Member on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:31 AM

This sunday 3/24 marks my 6 months from being divorced and its also my birthday.. best 6 months in 20 years. so happy birthday to meee!!

StormWitch
by Member on Mar. 18, 2013 at 12:49 PM
Happy divorcaversy. ;). I'm three months in since it was finalized. And I am finally discovering how to be happy again.
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steviechick
by Kay on Mar. 18, 2013 at 3:43 PM

I've been divorced since Nov 2011.  I've had three duddy dates and had two interests but nothing came of these interests.  I keep thinking what still lies ahead for me.  Will I meet Mr. Right FINALLY?  Or, will I continue to be lonely and try and keep myself busy with the few friends I have, going to the gym and running?  I'm bound to meet more people eventually.  Sometimes I just feel as though I'm not moving foward and only staying stagnant if not barely moving foward.  Does that make sense?

-Kney-
by New Member on Mar. 18, 2013 at 4:07 PM
Congrats. My divorce was final June 15, 2011, i didnt want it but he did we split at the beginning of the year he did the divorce i refused cause I didnt believe but a month before my divorce I met my current BF we hung out then we i got my papers sayin ir was final we made us as a couple official 4 months later me and my son moved in with him.. now its almost been 2 yrs we are beyond happy then ever he is great with my son and we had our first son together 4 months ago on the 26th.

Some say I moved on too fast but i dont believe so after i realized it was really over with my ex i was ok with being alone till my boyfriend came along. We had our struggle when we first started to date he had to leave for a month for the army, he is in the reserves here in Iowa .. we are a great couple never fight and always laughin n joking he is my best friend I didnt have that with my ex life with him was more like a job then anything
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MommaEST.99
by New Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 1:18 AM

Nice to hear!!

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