Another child support question, but a bit different
Okay, my xh wasn't ds's dad, so this doesn't have to do with divorce, but I figured some of you ladies may hav some insights.
Ds's dad and I get along great. He was paying support for 4 years with no order, on time, every payday. Fast forward to now, and since I needed medicaid for ds, we had to get a court order and do cs through the state. The state is awful at getting me my support checks on time, and blames him. Now, he has documentation that he pays his support every single week, and he's never behind on any bills, so I'm gonna believe him.
Problem is, now he's losing his job. I don't really want him to be obligated for cs anyway, and I'd like to end it, but it seems like the only way to do that is to get married. Does anyone know if he moves in if he will still have to pay support to me? Is there any way to get rid of him having to pay the state without us getting married (cuz, lets face it, I find him waaaay to ugly to even think of touching...)? We're not on any assistance from the state currently.