So, I'm still in the throes of the breakup of my 22 year relationship, but only recently found out he had been cheating. Silly me, I thought we only had some simple troubles we had not handled for too long and drifted too far to fix. Of course he was cheating! So, even though he's sorta hinted at fixing things (yes, only hinted, not straight up begged forgiveness or 'I want you back'). So I told him that he's forced my hand and I definately have to sleep with someone to even the score before I even talk about anything ( I really do know how immature and stupid that sounds!). So in the heat of heartbreak in the wee hours one night I signed up for match.com. Low & behold someone is actually interested in me and in emailing, I'm getting a bit excited at the idea of actually moving on and finding someone new. So what do you think about this: bad idea - am I asking for more trouble? good idea - time to move on?