For Holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas, that's usually worked out in a Custody agreement, but what about holidays like Memorial Day coming up?
I come from a family that loves to bbq so all the summer excuses to have one are like family bonding times. It's a big deal to me that my SS be there for a good amount considering his BM family is just different and doesn't celebrate the same way. My SO doesn't feel the same way since HIS family didn't make such a big deal about these types of weekends either.
So my question is, do you just do something if the child/ren are there?