As much as it kills me, I am nice....!!! That bothers her more than me getting angry. For instance, every time I get my DSD's pictures taken, I give some to her, even though she doesn't appreciate it. But my mom brought me up with morals and values so....I'm nice!!!!
I haven't done anything in particular. I would love to do some many things but most of them are illegal..lmao! I think the worse I did was send home DD in the most ridiclous outfit. She's 4 and I let her pick her clothes with some influence from myself. You shoulda seen her mom's eyes when she came home!!
I think Karma comes round soon enough and as far as doing anything directly to her goes, I never have, and I never will. But I do make jokes about her to DH and to my friends. I do learn everything I can about dysfunctional people so that I can be prepared for anything she might do and help DH deal with her.
I do dress very nicely and hold DH's hand when we go to functions where she might be.
But I really do that not to bug her, but because I want to show our community that DH is a prize and that I am blessed to have him.
i just ignore her and pretty much always have. at one point she was sending inventory of everything she was sending so to be a b*tch i did send an inventory sheet back pointing out that i had washed all the clothes SD had come in and we had actually added socks and other little things to her bag. that irritated her but thats really about it. me being with DH is usually enough.
Quoting mallowcup17:i just ignore her and pretty much always have. at one point she was sending inventory of everything she was sending so to be a b*tch i did send an inventory sheet back pointing out that i had washed all the clothes SD had come in and we had actually added socks and other little things to her bag. that irritated her but thats really about it. me being with DH is usually enough.
ya that was basically the beginning of the issue we had "lost" one shirt or something and she was pissed even though if i remember correctly it was 2 sizes too small to begin with(BM is a bit of a hoarder so this train of thought is commonly dealt with)...ya she has never sent any lists since.
Quoting LizzieJane:
I'm sorry, but this made me LOL. Our BM once sent nasty notes in SDs bag for SEVERAL visits demanding that we locate and give back ONE sock that SD5 was missing. I eventually went and bought an entire package of socks and included the receipt for $3.99 or whatever when I sent it home with SD5.
Quoting mallowcup17:i just ignore her and pretty much always have. at one point she was sending inventory of everything she was sending so to be a b*tch i did send an inventory sheet back pointing out that i had washed all the clothes SD had come in and we had actually added socks and other little things to her bag. that irritated her but thats really about it. me being with DH is usually enough.
WHY did I think I could do this?!
- JulieD55391
on May. 30, 2011 at 1:21 AM