So i had posted before about how much the SC dislike me and they make it a point to tell their dad on a weekly basis. I had my daughter a few weeks ago. They seem to love her always asking if they can hold her if I need help. i decline the help but always let them hold her whenever they ask unless of course im feeding her (reasonable). Their dad talked to them just last week and asked if they wanted to stay at our house for another year, he gives them the choice for a school year. They told him yes. BM comes for her visit brings them back. SD,SS, BM, and my husband all talked IDK what was said but my husband came in really upset and said the kids were leaving permentaly in augs. They finished out my SD probation and then they were gone to go with their mom. My husbands not a crier, so to see him have tears in his eyes hurt me. Like i said IDK what was said but he only usually gets upset like that when the kids or their mom bring up the baby so i think it had to do with the new baby in the house. My question is. BM currently lives with her mom in a houes where the kids will sleep on a couch, SD is on probation they re-evaluate in augs. she committeda felony when she was living with mom, thats why she is here. When we got them they had 12K of dental work that had to be done and had never been vacinated, to me this shows neglect on BM part.BM had son back a year ago and never enrolled him in school untill a truancy officer threatened to take him from her and she gave him back to us. with us we live in a 4 bd house they are in school have their own rooms do sports blah blah blah. the courts just recently cancelled BMs original custody order and gave custody to us (i think court papers are hard for me to understand). on child support papers it stated she was 8% and we had the other 92%. We have made our lives around them bought a suv so they would have space, renting a 4bd house for them everything and its costing a pretty penny we want to down size as of sept but we dont' know if the courts will say ok the kids want to go with mom done or if they are going to look at living arrangments and so forth its obvious they are better off here but they hate me and baby so they want to leave and go with mom (who doesn't have any rules). what should we do?