Have you ever read your child(ren) the Dr. Suess tale the Zax? Both refused to budge out of one another's way. All it would have taken was one to respect the other and step aside for the other to continue on his journey. This reminds me of SMs and BMs. All it takes is a little respect for the other. This is why some ladies have a problem with a BM being called names. The back and forth gets old and tiring and two wrongs don't make a right. I know many of you have difficult BMs to deal with and respecting them is the last thing on your mind. I was in that position before so I know what it's like. But to me, the name calling sets a negative atmosphere for our group so let's lighten it up. Moving past some of the negative lightens our burdens. So she may be a bitch. She may be mean. She may not be brilliant. But she is a mother and let's respect that. Let's all be the bigger person! So let's not fight over names so we can get to the bottom of things and that is dishing out advice and encouragement.
on Jun. 14, 2011 at 10:53 PM